If you’ve ever felt utterly confused, anxious due to narcissism in your partner, or even “crazy” in a relationship, you’re not alone. Narcissists have a way of stirring up strong emotions like jealousy, frustration, and resentment, only to turn around and act like you’re the problem. They’ll say you have “trust issues” or are “jealous,”…
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Narcissistic Projection: When narcissists accuse you of their own traits
In dealing with narcissistic individuals, one often encounters narcissistic projection, a baffling phenomenon where narcissists accuse others of behaviors and traits that they themselves possess. This psychological tactic, known as projection, is commonly used by narcissists to deflect attention from their own faults and insecurities. The image quote, “You’ll often find the narcissist’s description of…
Narcissism: Why a narcissist is like an iceberg
Narcissism is a personality trait that can often be confusing and challenging for those around the person who exhibits it. Much like an iceberg, a narcissist displays only a fraction of their personality above the surface. This visible portion often looks appealing—confidence, charm, sociability, and an air of caring. But beneath this attractive exterior lies…
Problem solving: How to solve any problem
Life is full of challenges, and sometimes it feels like problem solving and solutions in general, are elusive. But surprisingly, small actions and habits can go a long way in helping us tackle various issues. Here’s a practical guide inspired by everyday remedies to help you navigate a range of emotions and situations. 1. Feeling…
Feelings: Why Conversations About Feelings Shouldn’t Make You Doubt Yourself
Healthy communication about feelings in relationships—whether romantic, platonic, or familial—should be constructive, supportive, and safe. But too often, conversations about feelings end in arguments, deflection, or the lingering sense that you’re somehow at fault. If discussing your feelings routinely leaves you feeling misunderstood or diminished, it may be time to reflect on what healthy communication…
Narcissists: Unresolved Problems Drive Control in Relationships
In the interplay of human connections, coming across narcissists can seem like getting lost in a maze with no way out. In such a dynamic environment, issues tend to linger without being resolved, casting shadows that never fade. Why does this happen? It’s not about finding solutions; it’s about seeking control. Narcissists have a talent…