In dealing with narcissistic individuals, one often encounters narcissistic projection, a baffling phenomenon where narcissists accuse others of behaviors and traits that they themselves possess. This psychological tactic, known as projection, is commonly used by narcissists to deflect attention from their own faults and insecurities. The image quote, “You’ll often find the narcissist’s description of…
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Narcissism: Why a narcissist is like an iceberg
Narcissism is a personality trait that can often be confusing and challenging for those around the person who exhibits it. Much like an iceberg, a narcissist displays only a fraction of their personality above the surface. This visible portion often looks appealing—confidence, charm, sociability, and an air of caring. But beneath this attractive exterior lies…
Feelings: Why Conversations About Feelings Shouldn’t Make You Doubt Yourself
Healthy communication about feelings in relationships—whether romantic, platonic, or familial—should be constructive, supportive, and safe. But too often, conversations about feelings end in arguments, deflection, or the lingering sense that you’re somehow at fault. If discussing your feelings routinely leaves you feeling misunderstood or diminished, it may be time to reflect on what healthy communication…
Narcissists: Unresolved Problems Drive Control in Relationships
In the interplay of human connections, coming across narcissists can seem like getting lost in a maze with no way out. In such a dynamic environment, issues tend to linger without being resolved, casting shadows that never fade. Why does this happen? It’s not about finding solutions; it’s about seeking control. Narcissists have a talent…
Narcissists: How it feels having any relationship with them
Relationships with narcissists make things extremely complicated. You constantly ask yourself if you can be trusted. You doubt your own version of truth and often feel abandoned and exasperated. This is the case because they cannot tolerate having to agree on a certain point since that would mean giving away their control and power. While…
Empathy: The key to effective communication and strong relationships
Effective communication helps you build strong and long-lasting relationships, but if you misuse communication, you can inadvertently create problems and hurt those around you. Many problems can be solved with effective communication, and many problems can be avoided in the first place. To communicate effectively with others, you need to use empathy. Empathy is a…